LHG Voices

Welcome to LHG Voices! Here you will find great content about all things homesteading.
From helpful tips to best practices to personal stories of the amazing women who make up this organization, this is the place to find out what is happening with Ladies Homestead Gathering.
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  • 01/22/2018 3:23 PM | Willa Beth Smith (Administrator)

    HerStory – What’s Your Story?

    Everyone has a story, a history or in the case of Ladies Homestead Gathering, a HERstory.  Stories are used to teach and pass on traditions.  Storytelling elicits many emotions which bind all of us together.  We have already heard from a lot of our members telling their homesteading story, their struggles and their triumphs.  This is why we have ‘Atta Girls at every gathering, to hear a success story or failure so we can encourage and learn together!

    LHG Voices

    On our blog, LHG Voices, you can read a few HERstory’s.  For some, their homesteading journey was spurred from health issues with their child. For another, it came from a love of bugs.  And yet, for some, they immigrated here and wanted to enjoy a way of life more similar to their childhood in a different part of the world.  Whatever your story, it may touch someone else and help them in their journey. 

    Knowledge and Community

    One of the foundations of Ladies Homestead Gathering is knowledge.  From reading about someone else’s struggle, we learn through their experiences.  You may have found a better, easier way of keeping water available for your chickens in summer.  This may not be amazing to you but to someone else it could be a breakthrough. 

    We also find commonalities in each other’s homesteading stories which fulfills one of LHG’s other foundations, community.  For example, you may feel weird about your love of chickens, worms, fermented foods…fill in the blank, but then find several other people who share the same affinity.  By telling your story, you are reaching towards other people and opening up a community for yourself and others. 

    At LHG, we love to hear your homesteading story, your path and where it is leading you.

    It doesn’t have to be a novel (please, no novels).  And it is not being graded or judged.  We are all here to provide support!  For those of you who think you can’t write or don’t have a story to tell, we created a list of questions for you to consider to help you put your story together.  Of course, you can write it any way you want, in your own voice. 

    Help us learn and grow together by telling your story.  And, yes, it will be posted on LHG Voices!  What’s your story?

    Cultivating Dreams  ::  Growing Communities

  • 01/18/2018 10:29 AM | Willa Beth Smith (Administrator)

    It’s a WIN/WIN!

    Mother Earth News Teams Up with Ladies Homestead Gathering

    Do you ever wonder what this homesteading thing is all about?  Well check this out… Ladies Homestead Gathering and Mother Earth News have teamed up to offer you a discount to learn as much as you can in one weekend at the Mother Earth News Fair.  If you have never been, there is an abundance of knowledge and workshops on everything from organic gardening, animal husbandry to natural health.  If you have been, then you know to get your tickets early because they have been known to sell out.

    Our founder of Ladies Homestead Gathering, Cyndi Ball, will be speaking on Simplifying Your Homestead Plan as well as Women on Homesteads: The Need for Community.  Mother Earth News Fairs are happening all over the country.  Hopefully, there is one near you, but, if not, make it a weekend getaway for your family and/or grab your Chapter members and help us support Cyndi.  National Ladies Homestead Gathering will also have a booth so stop by and say “hi”.

    By the way, for each ticket sold through the links below, not only do you receive a discount, but, Ladies Homestead Gathering receives a small donation from Mother Earth News.  It’s a WIN/WIN!!!

    2018 Mother Earth News Fair Information:

    Below are dedicated links for buying weekend passes for all Mother Earth News Fairs in 2018.  Using these links gets you a $5 discount ($20 instead of $25)! 

    Weekend wristbands include access to all exhibits and workshop presentations for both days. Weekend wristbands DO NOT include access to Hands-On Workshops.  A separate ticket is required for Hands-On Workshops.

    Pre-order your wristband and SAVE!  A weekend wristband at the gate is $30.  Children 17 and under get in FREE and do not need a wristband.

    TEXAS (preorders before January 29, 2018 include a 20% coupon for the Fair bookstore!):


    NORTH CAROLINA (preorders before April 16, 2018 include a 20% coupon for the Fair bookstore!):


    OREGON (has an incorrect preorder date):


    PENNSYLVANIA (preorders before August 27, 2018 include a 20% coupon for the Fair bookstore!):


    KANSAS (preorders before September 24, 2018 include a 20% coupon for the Fair bookstore!):


    You can see a full schedule of topics, workshops and vendors by following the links. 

    Ready to plan your best year yet?  Plan on making Mother Earth News Fair part of your plan for growth, community and knowledge.  Don’t forget to find our booth and say “hi”.  We can’t wait to see you there.

    What topics interest you the most?  Have you ever been?  If so, what were your biggest take-away’s? 

    Please post and share this information on your Facebook page!  Anyone can use these links and it benefits LHG, too!


  • 01/15/2018 9:57 AM | Willa Beth Smith (Administrator)


    Jill Wolfe / South Hall GA Chapter

    Many times I have been asked what my homesteading story is by women in the Ladies Homestead Gathering (LHG) community. Each time, I wanted to duck and slink away because it seems like what I do does not fit the typical homesteading story. Of course with everyone’s story there is a history. 

    Based on my Mother’s stories of my early childhood, I think I was destined to end up on the homestead journey. We were stationed in Puerto Rico at the time. My Mother describes walking out the back door to hang wash, seeing me at the age of three by a bush doing something.  She walks over only to discover I am petting bees.  Nope! I never got stung.

    "Mom came in to discover my lips were swollen like giant red grapefruits."

    Another time, I was playing with a large fuzzy white bug I called a “walking feather” as Mom puts me down for my nap; I continued to play with the “walking feather.”  I wake from my nap and my Mom came in to discover my lips were swollen like giant red grapefruits. This led us to the emergency room where Mom discovered the “walking feather” was a toxic white fuzzy caterpillar. I had been rubbing its fuzzy hairs against my lips as I drifted off to sleep.

    On another trip to the doctor, he asks “Jill, what do you have in your hands?” As he reaches for my hands, I happily put my wonderful treasures in his hands. It was two dead rhinoceros beetles. The doctor jumped back a few feet and gave my Mother a look of sheer horror and he says “and you wonder why Jill is not feeling well?” You can imagine my poor Mother desperately trying to explain this and my other oddities.  As the years when by, I had tarantulas, snakes, praying mantis, ant farms, sea monkeys, lady bugs, mud puppies and kittens all as pets. 

    My fascination and love of bugs and critters continues to this day in my garden. My homesteading centers on bugs and critters. Currently, I live with my husband in subdivision which has a homeowner’s association. It is on a partially wooded, one acre lot, with fencing all-round the back yard where we can grow what we want.  Our small garden is where we grow food but at the same time, it is a wild and wooly place for bugs and critters. I let nature have a fairly free-hand in the garden. When I moved to Flowery Branch I knew absolutely nothing about gardening. But I would plant something and be absolutely astonished and giggly every time something came up. I experience that same joy even today.

    My career is in graphic design. But I discovered quickly, as I started my homesteading journey, learning about gardening, companion planting, foraging, bee keeping, composting, and permaculture, vermiculture, I had little or nothing in common with my co-workers.  I did not know another soul in the area that had any similar interests.  But, I was happy experimenting in my garden. I call it experimenting because if I liked a plant I saw in a seed catalog, even if it was not suited for my zone, I planted it anyway. This complete naiveté has resulted in incredible success.

    In the middle of the summer, my garden looks like a wooly mess to the untrained eye but everywhere I walk in the garden there is something interesting to observe. Chipmunks run up and down the walkways, birds of every breed flit around, snakes slither by, tortoises lumber along, crickets sing in the daytime, tree frogs sing in the evenings, toads sit quietly waiting, praying mantis stand like watchful statues, lizards give me a knowing nod, robber flies, dragon flies, spiders of every color, size and shape, and every butterfly, bee variety, and wasp can be found flying around the garden at one point or another. 

    So, where does Ladies Homestead Gathering fit into all this? One day someone over heard me talking about my gardening escapades and mentioned LHG. I was put in contact with Esther Artfeld who was just starting a new Chapter near me. Since, my current friends had convinced me I was an “odd bird”, I figured I would try it out but keep my eccentric gardening practices to myself. Not knowing what to expect, I was a little nervous but knew I might learn something and maybe make some friends. After about 15 minutes of hearing the other women describing their homesteading stories and interests, I knew I was in the right place.

    By the end of my first gathering, my universe had dramatically shifted. I was not alone in my ideas and thoughts; I was not an “odd bird” among these women. I had found a community that I could be part of and grow with on my homesteading journey. As I got to know the women in our chapter, I realized there was so much more to homesteading than just gardening.  I became so profoundly moved by these women, their grit and determination, I felt a growing desire to learn and do more than simply attend gatherings. I wanted to play a more active part in my LHG chapter and give back to this community.

    As the ladies and I worked together developing topics for future Gatherings or setting up our booth at the farmer’s market, our friendships grew.  Now, I have the most treasured friends of my life among these women.  I attended a LHG fall retreat and was overwhelmed by the incredible women I met from other chapters. Instantly, my community and circle of friends grew. Now I have friends in Colorado, Virginia, South Carolina, and Alabama. We were sharing our knowledge and supporting each other on social media and reading through LHG blogs.

    "...everyone on the National LHG board was a volunteer...."

    At our fall retreat I met Cyndi Ball, the founder, and the rest of the national board for the first time. As each board member spoke with me and discovered I was a graphic designer I saw an excited look in their eyes. They quickly asked me to be the graphic designer for LHG. I discovered everyone on the national board was a volunteer and their lives are even more hectic than mine and yet they were doing so much and homesteading on top of that. How could I say no to their request?

    Eventually, Esther had to move to Iowa and though part of my heart was breaking, the other part was filled with complete joy that her ultimate dream of a homestead was coming to fruition.  I had always been honored to be Esther’s “wing-women” so when Esther asked me to take on the role of president in our Chapter; I agreed to step up. Though I was nervous to take on this role; my board has been so supportive and left me in complete awe and in gratitude for everything they do for our chapter.  So, through my story you see how one person’s life has become so rich, full of joy and purpose through being part of LHG.

    What's your homestead story? How did you become interested in homesteading? Do you feel like you fit the mold of what people think of when you say "homesteader"?

  • 11/28/2017 2:37 PM | Willa Beth Smith (Administrator)
    Ahhhh, ‘tis the season for lots of wishful anticipation, hoping that all our dreams come true in this magical month!

    When my children were little, the “wish I had…” and “I hope I get…” started right after Thanksgiving when the toy catalogs began showing up in the mailbox.  After a few days barrage of justified argumentation for a certain toy, I asked each child to write their Christmas list for me. Peace once again reigned in the home, except for the occasional, “how do you spell…??”

    My children pored over the catalogs, discussed certain toys with friends, weighed their options and finalized their Christmas list.  Once that list was handed over, hopeful anticipation for Christmas morning grew steadily for the rest of the month.

    I loved reading over their lists and have saved several of them over the years.  It was important to me that my husband and I knew the wishes of our children. It gave us the wonderful opportunity to make our child’s hopes and dreams come true.

    With the same mindset, I’ve asked the National Board of LHG, what are their hopes and wishes for tools to more effectively help them serve you.  What are their dreams for our local boards to give them greater opportunities to connect more readily with their communities?

    After much discussion, research and weighing of options, the board members have turned in their lists and I wanted to share them with you.  In this season of giving, we could use your help.  We are in the midst of a very positive growth problem. The current funds aren’t matching the needs for this level of growth.  We are celebrating this problem because it means we are making a difference. 

    We are becoming the voice and avenue for change in the lives of lots of women!  And with your help, we will attain the tools necessary to reach more women and share our mission with those who, just like you, are looking for a community of like-minded women.

    “And this to me is the reason to give … giving out of a thankful, grateful heart for all you’ve received from LHG…”

    We are a young organization full of incredible women who definitely stand out in a crowd because of Ladies Homestead Gathering.  I meet women all the time who would love to have this community in their town.  And this to me is the reason to give … giving out of a thankful, grateful heart for all you’ve received from LHG so that others, like you, can have the life changing experience of a homesteading community.

    We are excited about the opportunities ahead of us, the amazing growth we are seeing, and the women we meet who are grateful for Ladies Homestead Gathering.

    Please take a moment to review our Dream List and see if there’s an item you could sponsor financially, either all at once or monthly, or even a portion.

    AND - we have $2000 in matching funds from anonymous donors who will match every dollar donated through the end of November!!!

    So your donation will go twice as far!

    If you have extra airline points, hotel points, or car rental points that you’d like to donate, we’d hugely appreciate that help!  Or maybe your employer does a Volunteer Hours Match.  We’ve had a few of our ladies use that and we are so grateful. Please email us if you can help us out in this way!

    So here’s the Dream List for Ladies Homestead Gathering…. 

    $135 per year OR $11.25 per month- SoundCloud account for audio storage for podcasts, leadership calls, etc.

    $6000 up front - Association Management Software (gives us our website, helps us manage memberships, send newsletters, create events, and track donations)

    $350 per month - Website presence and hosting

    $100 per year OR $8.33 per month - DocuSign - Allows for the signature of affiliate agreements and other official documentation that requires legal signatures

    $50 per month - Mailchimp - Allows for integration with our management software and allows National and Chapters to be able to send out their own newsletters professionally

    $180 per year OR $15 per month - office supplies for National Board members (printer ink and paper).

    $1000 up front OR $83.33 per month for digital camera, accessories and event equipment

    $600 upfront OR $50 per month for podcast equipment - microphones, software, etc.

    $16,000 per year OR $1333.33 per month for travel expenses for events we attend (Mother Earth News Fairs where we are able to reach new audiences and share our mission) and events we host (Leadership Retreats and REACH)

    How do you make some of these wishes come true for LHG?  Follow this link to the donation button on our website.  And remember – this is a tax donation since we are a 501c3 … a write off!!

    And if you’d like to give a gift that gives back, sign up to be a member if you’re not one already!  Your $35 membership fee gives YOU access to all our National Member Discounts and 20% of your $35 goes right back to your home Chapter. 

    Any amount you can share with us will be greatly appreciated!  The National Board and all your Local Board Members readily give their time and energy because they believe in the mission of Ladies Homestead Gathering and the power of Community.  It’s certainly not for the pay since everyone is a volunteer. :-)

    What is my wish this holiday season?  To see the community of LHG grow and embrace the many women across this nation who long to be a part of a loving, caring, knowledgeable circle of friends.

    Cyndi Ball

    Founder and President

    National Ladies Homestead Gathering 


  • 10/27/2017 1:44 PM | Willa Beth Smith (Administrator)

    The harvest is in. The canning is done. The first frost either close by or behind us.

    It’s time to prepare the garden for spring or to plant a winter garden, depending on your zone.  Take note of what was successful this year - and what wasn’t - and plan accordingly for your next growing season.  Whether it’s rotating your garden to a new area, expanding or adding beds, or just enriching the soil, putting in some elbow grease now will make spring planting a breeze.

    Six Steps to a Successful Spring Garden

    1)      Test the Soil

    Now is a perfect time to test your soil to see if it is too acidic or too alkaline.  Soil that is too acidic is a perfect environment for weeds and disease.  There are test kits available at most hardware stores, through your local extension agent or you can also test it yourself using vinegar and baking soda: https://preparednessmama.com/testing-your-soil-ph-without-a-kit/ .  Your local extension office can direct you where to send your soil to be tested for more than acidity.  These more comprehensive tests will tell you give you a more in-depth analysis of what your soil may be lacking.

    2)      Pull Weeds

    Hopefully, the weeds have not gone to seed yet, but, if so, carefully pull them up by the roots.  Do not add these to your compost as they may find a happy place to grow again.  Just add them to your burn pile or give them to your chickens as a treat!  You may also consider a cover crop such as fetch or clover to keep weed pressure down and rebuild soil.

    3)      Remove Old Vegetable Plants

    First, throw away any diseased plants in the same manner as weeds.  For healthy plants, cut the stems of the as close to the ground as possible.  Leave the roots to decompose, adding nutrients back into the soil.  Add the old plants to your compost.

    4)      Layer Garden Beds with Compost

    Add 1” to 2” of compost to your garden bed.  This is also a good opportunity to add fresh manure (in moderation) since it will have all winter to decompose.

    5)      Add Landscaping Fabric

    If desired, you can add landscaping fabric.  It will reduce weed growth and add heat to aid in decomposition of the mulch.  Just remove it in the spring when you are ready to plant.

    6)      Cover and Mulch

    Cover prepared beds with a thick layer of mulch of your choice.  You can use hay, straw, leaves, dried grass clippings, or wood chips.  Depending on what you choose to use will determine how thick to apply it.  For finer mulches like hay, straw or grass clippings, you will need to apply a thicker layer. (Note: If using grass clippings, it’s very important that clippings are completely dry before application.) Denser mulches like wood chips or bark break down more slowly, so you won’t need as much.  Don’t skimp on this step!  The mulch layer is crucial to moisture retention as well as protecting your precious top soil from blowing or washing away.

    Winter Planting

    If you are so inclined, there are zones in which you can plant winter hardy vegetables like cabbage or turnips.  Fall is also the perfect time to plant garlic for a summer harvest. 

    To Till or Not to Till

    There are two camps of thought on soil tilling; to till or not to till the soil.  Which camp are you in?  What has worked for you over the winter and what hasn’t?

    We are here to learn from one another so please share your thoughts with us.  Plus, we are spread across the USA in multiple planting zones.  Let us know how you prepare for winter in your home town.  We love to hear from our members!

    Cultivating Dreams  ::  Growing Communities

  • 10/17/2017 12:26 PM | Willa Beth Smith (Administrator)

    Most of you have probably heard of Fire Cider sometimes referred to as Fire Tonic.  It is an apple cider vinegar (ACV) based infusion of spicy roots, vegetables and herbs with a hot flavor traditionally used as a folk remedy for the common cold.  People have been known to take a spoonful daily as an immune booster and to aid digestion.

    The health benefits of ACV date back to 400 BC as noted by Hippocrates, but no one knows when the blended elixir we know today as Fire Cider first came into being.  It’s as if it has always been a part of the American homestead. Regardless of its origins, fire cider has been shown to shorten or lessen the length of a cold or flu and to reduce the severity of symptoms.  Though it’s health benefits have been touted by its users for generations, it has not been formally tested by the FDA. 

    Rosemary Gladstone, founding member of the Northeast Herbal Association, Inc. http://www.northeastherbal.org/, has a good basic recipe below.  Once you have mastered this recipe, feel free to add your own herbs and spices as your needs require. 

    • ½ cup fresh ginger (grated)
    • ½ cup fresh horseradish (grated)
    • 1 onion (chopped)
    • 10 garlic cloves (minced)
    • 2 jalapeno peppers (chopped with seeds)
    • Zest and juice of 1 lemon
    • 2 TBLS of rosemary, dried (or several sprigs of fresh)
    • 1 TBLS ground turmeric (or grated root, about 2 inches)
    • Apple Cider Vinegar to cover all ingredients in a quart jar.
    • ¼ cup of honey to use after it has infused (do not add at this time)

    Put ginger, horseradish, onion, garlic, peppers, lemon zest, lemon juice, rosemary and turmeric in a quart canning jar.  Cover with raw apple cider vinegar by about two inches.  Using a piece of parchment paper or wax paper under the lid to avoid corrosion, close tightly.  Shake well daily and store in a dark place.

    Let it infuse for about a month or longer shaking it daily.  After a month, use a cheesecloth to strain out the pulp, pouring the vinegar into a clean jar.  Be sure to squeeze as much of the liquid goodness as you can from the pulp while straining.  This is when you add the ¼ cup of honey and stir until blended. Taste the cider and add more honey to reach your desired flavor.  Fire cider should taste hot, spicy and sweet.

    Store in a temperature controlled, preferably dark place and it will keep up to one year.  You can refrigerate it if you prefer it cold.

    When choosing ingredients, here are some notes on what to consider:

    1) Always choose raw ACV with the “mother”.  We recommend the brand called Bragg’s from the 20th century health guru, Paul Bragg’s, daughter found in most grocery stores.

    2) When grating a horseradish root, wear protective glasses and be aware of the strong pungent odiferous.  You don’t want to get it in your eye!  It will burn like fire!

    3) Root powder can be used as a substitute where the ginger, turmeric or horseradish roots are unavailable.  But where available, the raw root is best.  You do not have to peel the roots prior to grating.  Just throw it all in there.

    Fire Cider is also delicious used in a salad dressing, home-made mustard, coleslaw, soup and so much more.  Save the left over pulp and add it to stir fry vegetables or any hot spicy dish.  Use it sparingly as it can be quite strong!

    Could this be the “spring tonic” referred to in Mark Twain’s book, Tom Sawyer, in which Aunt Polly gives tonic to Tom? Then Tom gives it to the cat sending it into fits running around the house? 

    Have you made your own Fire Cider?  What special ingredients did you add?  Have you used it to treat a cold?  Share what you have learned with us.  We love to hear from our members. 


  • 09/12/2017 3:52 PM | Willa Beth Smith (Administrator)

    Willa Beth - HerStory

    Willa Beth has been a member of the South Hall, GA Chapter of LHG for two years where she serves as Secretary.  Here is her homesteading story:

    My first memory is the day my Great Uncle Joe gave us his old pony, Sherlock Surefoot.  I was three years old and stood barely knee high to my tall, skinny uncle.  The pony was fluffy and white, gluttonous and none too happy to be ridden.  My older brother and sister, Robert and Alice, were running in and out of the house, the screen door slamming behind them as they grabbed apples and carrots to feed the pudgy pony.

    "I touched his soft, fuzzy face and it was love, all at once."

    It was early spring and the wind was violently blowing my Great Aunt Ethel’s red hair and her blue dress all around making for a funny sight.  Mother and Aunt Ethel were deep in conversation but my dad, not wanting me to miss out on the new arrival, picked me up, smiling, and carried me over to where Sherlock was fenced in our corral.  I touched his soft fuzzy face and it was love, all at once.  Yes, I was one of those little girls who had a pony. Albeit a mean, ornery pony, but a pony none-the-less.

    Growing up on a small homestead surrounded by other farms was ideal.  My Grandparents lived just around the corner on a large tract which made our 40 acres seem small.  My Grandmother, affectionately known as Mimi, quilted, crocheted and knitted.  She also made sourdough bread and the best darn tea cakes you ever tasted. There were ever-changing ponds and creeks, forests and fields for my siblings, cousins and I to explore.  Like my parents, my grandparents had cows and grew hay which fed both our herds.  In addition to cows, we also raised ducks, sheep, bird dogs and lots and lots of cats. 

    During my teenage years, my oldest sister, Jo Wynn, moved into a small house next to my Grandparents and started raising all kinds of chickens and rabbits and a turkey named Troy.  She also grew a great assortment of herbs and was learning medicinal uses for each kind.  She was a hippy of sorts and believed in living off the earth and eating fresh and healing yourself through good nutrition.  Her influence combined with my pastoral childhood set me up to long for my own homestead. 

    But life throws you curve balls and dreams are put on hold. Unfortunately, my sister did not live past age 39.  The loss of my best friend/sister left a big hole in my life.  She taught me everything from how to grow mint to breastfeeding my baby girl. Then, a year after losing Jo Wynn, my first marriage failed and it was my role to provide for myself and my daughter.  We grew pumpkins in our back yard and had a compost bin, but, the dream of a larger homestead faded away and slowly, I stopped thinking about it.   

    "... we started with six baby chicks ... raising them in our bathtub..."

    Now, 15 years later, my daughter is grown and I am remarried and have three beautiful step-daughters.  With the help and complete support of my husband, Chris, we started with six baby chicks about four years ago.  We raised them in our bathtub while we worked on building a chicken coop.  One of the chicks began to stick its leg out and eventually fell over, unable to walk.  First I separated it from the others and called my sister Alice who is a veterinarian.  Alice came over and we created a paste of feed and probiotics and minerals to hopefully help this baby chick survive.  But, chicks are fragile and it did not live.  Alice explained that typically, out of 10 chickens, you might have six which survive.  Life in general is more fragile and more precious than I ever imagined. 

    About a year after moving to Flowery Branch, I received an email about Ladies Homestead Gathering and a new Chapter starting in Flowery Branch, GA.  Even though I was skeptical about it, my husband encouraged me to go and see what it was about.  After my first meeting where I met Esther Arkfeld, Jill Puckett and Jill Wolfe, I was hooked.  They were talking about fermenting and canning and making things like Mimi used to do.  Just like meeting my pony, Sherlock, for the first time, I knew instantly I was going to love this group.

    "...I started making sourdough bread, kombucha and homemade medicinal elixirs.."

    Through my association with these lovely ladies, I started making sourdough bread, kombucha and homemade medicinal elixirs like fire cider and elderberry syrup.  Then, I attended my first retreat hosted by National Ladies Homestead Gathering and the door opened wider.  I was astonished by all these women who had amazing skills which I longed to learn.  And they were more than happy to share my journey and help me along the way.

    With these new friendships, I feel like my life has really taken off and the hole left by the loss of my sister, Jo, is starting to feel more whole.  My passion for the homesteading lifestyle is blossoming again and I am on a grand adventure learning everything I can.  My family is looking for more acreage to build on and keep this dream alive.  With the support of my LHG tribe, I will finally achieve my goals.  There is so much still to learn! And, my sister Jo Wynn and Mimi are cheering me on! 


  • 08/28/2017 8:51 AM | Willa Beth Smith (Administrator)

    We All Need a Wingman!

    In the 21st Century age of technology the “butt dial” is a real thing. During a long day of trimming sheep feet, LHG member Jan Southers had no idea that she was calling fellow homesteader Mary Fucci’s phone over and over.  Mary could hear sheep in the background and knew that Jan was home, but when she would not speak on the line or pick up returned calls, Mary feared the worst. 

    What other choice did she have?  Mary and her husband Al got in the car and drove across town to check it out!  Not just around the corner, Mary drove more than 15 miles to be sure everything was okay. If actions speak louder than words, Jan’s bear hug testifies to the true friendship these LHG women share. 

    Even though a modern homesteader is one who has an attitude and philosophy of self-sufficiency, the women of Ladies Homestead Gathering believe in community and interdependence. Self-reliance isn’t about looking out for number one; it’s about building the strength of the flock.   Every member of the flock need s good wingman, and it feels great when you know your sister has your back!  LHG member Mary Fucci is a wingman, indeed!

    Picture of Jan Southers, and Mary Fucci of the Madison County, LHG Chapter in Georgia. 

    This story was contributed by Kelly Capers, a member of LHG. We would like to hear more stories of how we are supporting one another through building our community at Ladies Homestead Gathering.  Please contact us at info@ladieshomesteadgathering.org to send in your stories and pictures.

    Cultivating Dreams  ::  Growing Community
  • 08/17/2017 9:46 AM | Willa Beth Smith (Administrator)

    Do you ever feel lost? Like you are drowning in a digital ocean of social media forcing huge tidal waves of information crashing down around you?  As if at any given moment, the sky will fall and the world as we know it will end?  If you fall victim to 24-hour news feeds or the incessant notifications on social media, you might feel this way.

    Even Henry David Thoreau, famous writer of Walden Pond, felt as if the magnetic telegraph would disrupt the otherwise tranquil rhythm of his day.  And it was only connecting Maine to Texas through Morse code at the time. His reaction was to build a cabin and for a year, live alone, away from the hustle and bustle of the late 1850’s.  Imagine what Thoreau would think of us today. 

    As a society who rarely looks up from their phones, he would marvel at our digitally induced disconnectedness.  Let’s face it (no pun intended), we like meeting with other people face-to-face, hearing their voices and tone and shaking hands. Having someone be genuinely happy to see you and greet you warmly is way more satisfying than a smiley-faced emoji any day.

    Ladies Homestead Gathering is unique because it is based on direct, face-to-face, hands-on interaction.  Building a community of like-minded women is the foundation of our local Chapters and why we gather as a group every month.  We are the only all-woman homesteading organization which offers knowledge, education and friendship, all in one awesome package through each local Chapter. Our greatest successes come from working together, hand-in-hand as a community. 

    So, how does Ladies Homestead Gathering build community? 

    Through Face-to-Face Gatherings

    You have the opportunity to meet every month with people in your town who are learning or practicing homesteading.  Neighbors you didn’t even know you had who have been living the homestead lifestyle their entire lives or are just getting started.  Fellowship is what it is all about (not the hokee-pokee).

    By Making it Open to All Women Interested in Homesteading Practices

    Gatherings are FREE to attend.  All are welcome who have a desire to pursue their homesteading interests.  There are benefits to being a member as mentioned in a previous post, but, you don’t have to be a member to attend gatherings or workshops.  Once a newbie feels comfortable and has made a few friends, they will join!  It’s inevitable.

    By Telling Stories

    Yes, we love to hear your stories.  We all want to be heard and recognized individually.  Allowing everyone to feel comfortable enough to tell their homesteading story bonds us together.

    By Holding Yearly National Retreats

    Once a year, usually in October, we gather from all across the USA for a group retreat.  Whilst connecting with other women, we learn homesteading techniques and make useful things.  And you get to take all your goodies home with you to share with your home chapters.

    By Providing Hands on Training

    Each Chapter offers demonstrations, as well as hand-on learning of different practices like canning, soap making or anything related to a homestead.  These are free, but, there are often optional paid workshops offered by more seasoned practitioners in various areas of homesteading.

    Through ‘Atta Girls

    Homesteading can present some rather unique challenges.  To recognize a fellow female homesteader’s accomplishment or success, we say emphatically, “Atta girl”!  At each Gathering, there is a time set aside specifically for ‘atta girl’s.  We can all use a little more support and encouragement!

    By Connecting People, Goods and Services

    You are a gardener with a fabulous green thumb to grow herbs.  An herbalist in your Chapter needs fresh herbs from a known source.  Put these two together and it’s a match.  On a homestead, it is the rare individual who can do everything.  We all rely on each other to fill the gaps in our capabilities and time.  At Chapter gatherings, there is time prior to the demonstration to share, sell or swap goods.  A perk of membership is the ability to post on the Swap & Shop Facebook page for your chapter. 

    Want to end the disconnectedness and meet new people interested in the same things? Come to a Gathering and see if it is a good fit for you.  To find a Chapter near you, check the banner above called Local Chapters and you will find dates and topics for a Gathering near you.  Not a Chapter near you?  Start your own by visiting our Home Page. 

    Cultivating Dreams  ::  Growing Communities
  • 08/01/2017 1:03 PM | Willa Beth Smith (Administrator)

    Karen Smith Herstory

    When you think of homesteading, most people think of vast farms with huge tracts of land and oceans of grain or corn growing in the fields.  But a homestead isn’t defined by how much land you have or by how much produce you grow.  Homesteading is truly a mindset, a lifestyle, with a foundation in loving and preserving the earth and all its abundant resources.  It is a way of living sustainably by using what is right there around you.  One such person who epitomizes the homesteading lifestyle and mindset is Karen Smith.  She is an active member of the South Hall, GA Chapter of LHG.

    Almost everything Karen does has an air of conservation and an organic flair.  She has learned a lot through trial and error.  As an involved member of our LHG community, Karen openly shares her experience and knowledge, as well as her plants, seeds, and homesteading techniques with the South Hall Chapter.

    Karen was an Agriculture Major focusing on Plant Sciences from the University of Connecticut.  Karen grew up in Connecticut.   Her interest in plant sciences stemmed from dabbling in gardening tomatoes, squash and raspberry bushes. 

    After college she met her husband, Steven, and they moved to Buford, GA.  They were able to buy enough acres to have a few cows, plant fruit bushes and trees, raise chickens and a garden.   She began composting and experimenting with soil and earthworms.  As she learned more about organic gardening, she decided to stop tilling the soil, a practice which kills many of the micro-organisms that provide key plant nutrients. 

    "After giving homemade jelly to one of my boys' teachers, she asked me if I was from the country.  I said, no, I am just an old hippie."  ~  Karen Smith

    Karen possesses a unique talent for reusing and repurposing old items on her homestead and has taught our Chapter many useful things about conservation.  Last year, there was a serious drought in the southeast with 30 consecutive days without rain, a record in Georgia.  This caused the loss of plants, as well as low food production, and severely impacted the native bee population.

    To be more drought ready, Karen decided to make a rain gauge to determine if her plants were receiving enough rain. By using an old plastic peanut butter jar with the top removed, she attached a long metal gutter spike with a washer adhered with epoxy.  The gutter spike was then stuck into the ground and leveled to hold the rain.  From these homemade rain gauges, Karen could determine how much additional water the plants might need by keeping a record of the rainfall. 

    Then, with the help of her husband, she created a watering system for her blueberry bushes and tomatoes from five gallon buckets and a stiff old watering hose.   By positioning the buckets atop poles, this created enough gravity to pull the water down through the hoses which had been punctured with nails to allow the water to slowly seep into the ground around her plants.  As needed, they could simply fill the buckets and let gravity do the work. 

    Some of her water comes from the reuse of an assortment of food-grade plastic barrels she uses to catch rain water off of her shed.  She attached an old washing machine hose to the lower part of the barrel and a valve to allow the release of the water.  It’s an ingenious way to save water whether you have a well or are connected to the county water supply.  (Check with your county or city to be sure it is acceptable to collect rainwater in your area.)

    To help the bees, Karen attended a workshop on how to make nests for Orchard Mason bees and other solitary bees by using an open faced wren’s box or by reusing large baked beans cans.  Either can be mounted, south-facing, on trees or other structures, out of the drip line. Then she inserted small rolls of newspaper, about the size of your finger bunched together, as the nesting for the bees.  By creating a habitat for bees, Karen is helping the species flourish while also attracting pollinators for her plants. 

    Her efforts to deal with drought creatively by reusing and repurposing old items is an excellent example of homesteading know-how and perseverance.  These qualities have enabled her to be successful and to endure life’s little curve balls. We are thankful for Karen and her willingness to share her homesteading journey, its challenges and solutions, with us.  We continue to learn from her as well as from each other.  That is, after all, what Ladies Homestead Gathering is all about, sharing and growing together.

    If you have a special member, like Karen, tell us about her in the comments section.  How does she demonstrate the qualities of community?  What is her extraordinary talent? We love hearing from you.

    Cultivating Friendships :: Growing Communities
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